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Lookin
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01/16/12
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Been ages since I've used this site on a regular basis. Though I still consider my self the easy going, always ready to chat gal I was years ago when I first signed up, there is more to me now. I want to find someone who isn't affraid to put themselves out there. I like to think that you give what you get. I put in a 110% in all of my relationships, so if you have me you will definitly get what you give and then some. I grew up in a military town and even though I've left I always come back. Many of my closest friends are military, and have always had my support and love.
It is a new year and I'm ready to start fresh-- anyone interested?
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Dating
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10/08/11
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So I'm a single mom who has been in San Diego for about three years now. I got involved with a man I met on this site actually almost 6 years ago! We lived together for about 8 months. he was great-- a real catch and made me so happy. but he was alway secretive about phone calls and txt messages, kept telling me it was the ex and he didn't want to argue on the phone with her in front of me...man was I dumb! undoubtedly it was the ex wife more than once, but it was also another girl he hooked up with while stationed in TX. he claims he loves us both...okay...hhhmmm..ya, well I tried wraping my brain around that for few days--I'm a pretty loving and open minded girl, but i hated the idea that he was still lying to her and so eventually i called her. hey I even told him before that I had her number and was tempted to call her and he said he wouldn't blame me...ya right, he sure as heck blames me. There was a breif moment of packing up his stuff an hour or two after i found out about her, but we talked and agreed to see if we could work things out. but when I made one phone call after being lied to for months he was quick to leave and says he can never see me again.
so I'm throwing myself a little pitty party now. and to futher that along man i really want to find some people (male and female) to go out with for a night on the town here in San Diego. hit me up if you all are interested!
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Would you introduce a young girlfriend to military dating?
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58 Views
09/04/11
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so my much younger 22 year old sis was in town again this weekend. I live in one of the largest military cities in this country so a man in uniform is around every corner. now she is a little bit of a shy gal and not very experinced to say the least, but eger to get out there and spread her wings. so I took her to one of the bars I use to frequent I was young and fun ;) after a while I ended up draging her to a table with a couple of young (obvious) marines. she had a good time to say the least over the next few days. never got into more than she wanted to, but had a blast. I think back to my younger and more innocent years and start thinking..hhhhmmm I definitly was not always the safest chick, one chick with a handful of military guys hanging out with me. but I was bold and had no problem holding my own back in those days. but now I wonder, maybe I shouldn't be introducing her to this kind of life style. I know more good guys than bad in the military, but that doesn't mean that there aren't plenty who are just out there for a nice piece, if ya know what I mean. maybe I should tell her to stick to those nice college boys...ya because they are all so upstanding--not. what a perdiciment. I'm a big fan of the hey if you want to get to know someone in the service become their pen pal first... get to know them then maybe take it to the next level if you want. this seems to be the place to do just that. wish I saw it happening more often.
So my friends, would you take your young impressionable and inexperinced friend to hang out with a bunch of Marines?
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you are invited!!!
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10/05/10
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Okay I am So BORED! let's chat it up! isn't there anything interesting going on out there? Where are you at, what are you doing, what do you wish you were doing right now or could be doing soon. man that sounded to leading, but then again it is a dating site so take for what it is worth to ya! lol! just have fun and have some conversation!
we are all looking for fun happy relationships. we all want to feel loved-- sometimes forever, sometimes just for the here and now, whatever your pleasure. share and share alike. we all have memories of those great romances that lasted a day, a week, a few months, sometimes years. okay... most of those year long ones ended badly, but hey there were some good times, right? share and share alike I say. let's mix it up!
Chicks can be hard to figure out--if you are a guy and have a question feel free to ask, there are only about a few hundred women on this web site who will jump at a chance to answer you deepest and darkest questions. if we can't be the women for you we can at least help you find your way to her! hahha! or at least how to make her happy ;)
so I invite you all to join in and share!
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Summer time in San Diego!
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06/10/10
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Okay I'm a teacher at a school that is on year around schedule and school is officially over--so let the good times begin people! On top of all that excitement my beautiful (yet shy) little sister is spending her summer away from college down here in lovely San Diego with me! She is just newly 21, so she needs to be properly introduced to the San Diego night life I think, don't we all agree? okay' but let's be real for a moment here... I'm a few years over 21 now... was busy being married and having kids for quiet a while so now what? I'm just going to jump back into that whole bar stuff with the youngsters? lol!?!?! oh my land whatever am I to do? how do you get back into dating when you've been focused on being a wife and mother for the last 9 years? jeeze... now I have summer jitters! Well hopefully someone somewhere can give me some ideas as to where to take this young fledgling that will show her a good time without being to embarrassing for someone who is just trying to ease back into the game.
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cant stop wondering after all this time
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85 Views
05/05/10
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so meant a great guy a few years back... we both had our personal lives to sort out but still I had one of those wow, this person really gets me kind of moments. He said he did too. wrote me hundreds and hundreds of emails while overseas. things were always great when we saw one another, but we rarely saw one another. now this past year... our lives have both changed. we've cut away other personal ties which would leave one to assume we would be free to further pursue our own relationship but the complete opposite has happened. it is so perplexing! and it isn't even like I'm looking for the happily ever after ring on the finger type of scenario, but I feel like I lost one of my best friends too. It is like all that time out there across the ocean on some unnamed base in one of those random countries we all know about for the wrong reasons and now all the pressures of being back state side and what not has just the life out of him. trips me out. the passion he had is gone. did it slip between his fingers like sand does? it sure seems to have slipped between mine. so here it is pretty much my birthday... 3am the morning of, and I'm wondering... just can't help but to wonder, is he going to call or email or txt? haven't heard from him in weeks. haven't seen him in months, but still... can't help but wonder. wish my feelings were more easy to control.
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what happened?!?!?!
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07/18/09
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okay been a while since I've posted here and what the heck has happened? first off I can't change my profile stuff... maybe that is just me it is like 1am and I could be a little sleepy, but whatever. here is my deal. just got the ax to say the least. written off, adios, good bye, that is all she/he wrote. no hope of a tomorrow with my husband. honestly didn't really think there was, but hey you know how it goes, till you hear the words it isn't really reality no matter what I guess. so life is kind of harsh. so now here I am. 33, soon to be single. I haven't lived with my "husband" in over a year. he is seeing some one else already. I have two great kids that I've let consume my whole life and I'm freaking out. All of a sudden I'm thinking holy cow I need to meet some people. men, women, friends, whatever-- I just need a life! I haven't done anything but hang on to a pipe dream for 10 years. So ring me up. or write me up rather here on this lovely website, especially if you are a local of San Diego-- one of the biggest military bases of course, where else would I be living? UGH!
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Almost Valentine's Day
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46 Views
02/13/09
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well another Valentine's day is upon us. those of you wandering through the internet browsing through cyber space looking for love in "all the wrong places" are part of a very large group I believe. hey, been there, done that, think they ripped me off in the t-shirt department though... thus I return for said t-shirt. man I should get something out of this deal right?? so how's it going to all of you out there? how's the good old 14th of Feb treating you this year? mine is slightly bitter and cranky, but I do bitter and cranky with a smile so all is not lost.
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Funnies
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01/02/08
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Communication Breakdown...
The reason the Army, Navy, Air Force, and Marines squabble among themselves is that they don't speak the same language. For example, take a simple phrase like, "Secure the building."
? The Army will put guards around the place.
? The Navy will turn out the lights and lock the doors.
? The Air Force will take out a 5-year lease with an option to buy.
? The Marines will kill everybody inside and make it a command post.
"crap": Through the Eyes of the Military
An Army grunt stands in the rain with a 35-pound pack on his back, 15-lb. weapon in his hand, having marched 12 miles, and says, "This is 'crap'."
An Army Airborne Ranger stands in the rain with a 45-pound pack on his back, weapon in hand, after having jumped from a plane and jogged 18 miles, says with a smile, "This is good 'crap'."
A Navy Seal lies in the mud, 55-pound pack on his back, weapon in hand, after swimming 10 miles to shore, crawling through a swamp, and running 25 miles at night past enemy positions, says with a grin, "This is really great 'crap'."
A Marine, up to his nose in the stinking, bug-infested mud of a swamp with a 65-pound pack on his back and weapons in both hands after jumping from an aircraft at high altitude into the ocean, swimming 12 miles to shore, killing several alligators to enter the swamp, then crawling 30 miles through the brush to assault an enemy camp, says, "I love this 'crap'."
An Air Force NCO sits in an easy chair in an air-conditioned, carpeted office in front of his computer and says, "My e-mail is out? What kind of "crap" is this?"
Jeep in the mud
During training exercises, the lieutenant who was driving down a muddy back road encountered another car stuck in the mud with a red-faced colonel at the wheel. "Your jeep stuck, sir?" asked the lieutenant as he pulled alongside.
"Nope," replied the colonel, coming over and handing him the keys, "Yours is."
A Boy Named Sue
A guy was telling about this girl Sue who disguised herself as a man and joined the army.
"But, wait a minute," said his friend, "She'll have to dress with the boys and shower with them, too, won't she?"
"Sure," replied the guy.
"Well, won't they find out?"
The guy shrugged. "Who's gonna tell?"
Shave and a haircut
A Navy Chief and an Admiral were sitting in the barbershop. They were both just getting finished with their shaves, when the barbers reached for some after-shave to slap on their faces.
The admiral shouted, "Hey, don't put that stuff on me! My wife will think I've been in a whorehouse!"
The chief turned to his barber and said, "Go ahead and put it on. My wife doesn't know what the inside of a whorehouse smells like."
Military Truisms
? "Aim towards the Enemy." [Instruction printed on US rocket launcher]
? When the pin is pulled, Mr. Grenade is no longer our friend. [From a US Field Manual]
? Cluster bombing from B-52s is very, very accurate. The bombs always hit the ground.
? Whoever said the pen is mightier than the sword obviously never encountered automatic weapons.
? Don't ever be the first, don't ever be the last, and don't ever volunteer to do anything.
? If your attack is going too well, you are walking into an ambush.
? If you find yourself in a fair fight, you didn't plan your mission properly.
? Don't draw fire; it irritates the people around you.
? No combat-ready unit has ever passed inspection.
? Any ship can be a minesweeper . . . . once.
? If the enemy is in range, so are you.
? Tracers work both ways.
? Friendly fire isn't.
? Five second fuses only last three seconds.
? Never share a foxhole with anyone braver than you are.
? The problem with taking the easy way out is that the enemy has already mined it.
? Incoming fire has the right of way.
? The quartermaster has only two sizes: too large and too small.
? If you can see the enemy, he can see you.
? And never tell your Platoon Sergeant you have nothing to do.
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If you're bored...50 questions
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79 Views
01/02/08
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50 ODD Things about you! If you opened this, FILL IT OUT! Learn 50 things about your friends, and let them learn 50 things about you!
1. Do you like blue cheese?
Yes
2. Have you ever smoked heroin?
Hahahaha! nope
3. Do you own a gun?
not currently
4. What flavor do you add to your drink at Sonic?
been too long since I've been to a sonic... probably apple??
5. Do you get nervous before doctor appointments?
not usually
6. What do you think of hot dogs?
not top on my list... yet there is a time and place for everything
7. Favorite Christmas song?
White Christmas
8. What do you prefer to drink in the morning?
Depends on how how much I had to drink the night before--hahhaha!! no seriously orange juice
9. Can you do push ups?
maybe one, maybe more, probably less than five.
11. What's your favorite piece of jewelry?
I only wear a ring,but I use to always wear a necklace, it was my favorite... converted it into a ring hence the ring I now wear...
12. Favorite hobby?
sex, hahha, yeah I wish. thinking about sex. yeah whatever. probably reading... watching t.v.? supper active hobbies as you can tell.
14. Do you have A.D.D.?
not really
15. What's one trait that you hate about yourself?
I can be too nice at times and I feel the need to know everything...oh and I don't know how to shut up.
16. Middle name?
Jean
17. Name 3 thoughts at this exact moment...
Dumb ass dog.
I think I may have a headache...
I should totally be asleep.
18. Name 3 things you bought yesterday.
yesterday...dude nothing memorable obviously.
19. Name 3 drinks you regularly drink.
Propel, apple-cranberry juice, gatorade
20. Current worry right now?
life
21. Current hate right now?
life
22. Favorite place to be?
anywhere but here
23. How did you bring in the New Year?
with a migraine
24. Where would you like to go?
to visit a very special sexy man I met once or twice a life time ago... hahaha!
25. Name three people who will complete this.
Goodness only knows
26. Do you own slippers?
Yes, but I can never find both at the same time. they are frog slippers..
27. What shirt are you wearing?
white v-neck
28. Do you like sleeping on satin sheets?
Yes, but they can be slippery--yet all good things are ;)
29. Can you whistle?
Yes
30. Favorite color(s)?
green, brown, burgundy
31. Would you be a pirate?
AAAARRRRRRRRRRRRR!
32. What songs do you sing in the shower?
I will never tell!
33. Favorite girl's name?
Hannah I think... shot who am I kidding, it is Sarah of course
34. Favorite boy's name?
elijah... or Adam... hahhaha, private joke there... maybe Ethan. quite in love with my Ethan
35. What's in your pocket right now?
no pockets to speak of. usually, my cell, my smokes, a lighter, and some cash-- oh and chapstick
36. Last thing that made you laugh?
this ridiculous questionnaire
37. Best bed sheets as a child?
Disney
38. Worst injury you've ever had?
blew out my knee... three surgeries later and here I am...
39. Do you love where you live?
No
40. How many TVs do you have in your house?
that work? 1 total? 2
41. Who is your loudest friend?
oh god... they can all be pretty freaking loud. depends on what they are doing;)
42. How many dogs do you have?
two
43. Does someone have a crush on you?
kind of
45. What is your favorite book?
Jeeze I read too many for just one favorite!
46. What is your favorite candy?
some sort of maple fudge I think
47. What is your favorite sports team?
Seriously don't have one anymore...
48. What song do you want played at your funeral?
Oh man I haven't thought that far in advance
49. What were you doing 12 AM last night?
Sleeping maybe
50. What was the first thing you thought of when you woke up?
I hate alarms.
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Funny Story: The newlyweds
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01/11/07
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The newlyweds
A young couple decided to wed. As the big day approached, they grew apprehensive. Each had a problem they had never before shared with anyone, not even each other. The Groom-to-be, overcoming his fear, decided to ask his father for advice. "Father," he said, "I am deeply concerned about the success of my marriage. I love my fianc?e, very much, but you see, I have very smelly feet, and I'm afraid that my future wife will be put off by them." "No problem," said dad, "all you have to do is wash your feet as often as possible, and always wear socks, even to bed." Well, to him this seemed a workable solution.
The bride-to-be, overcoming her fear, decided to take her problem up her mom. "Mom," she said, "When I wake up in the
morning my breath is truly awful." "Honey," her mother consoled, "everyone has bad breath in the morning." "No, you don't
understand. My morning breath is so bad, I'm afraid that my new husband will not want to sleep in the same room with me."
Her mother said simply, "Try this. In the morning, get straight out of bed, and head for the bathroom and brush your teeth. The key is, not to say a word until you've brushed your teeth. Not a word," her mother affirmed. Well, she thought it was certainly worth a try. The loving couple were finally married in a beautiful ceremony. Not forgetting the advice each had received, he with his perpetual socks and she with her morning silence, they managed quite well. That is, until about six months later. Shortly before dawn, the husband wakes with a start to find that one of his socks had come off. Fearful of the consequences, he frantically searches the bed. This, of course, woke his bride and without thinking, she immediately asks, "What on earth are
you doing?" "Oh, no!" he gasped in shock, "You've swallowed my sock!"
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Is it okay to have a fantasy relationship?
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78 Views
12/13/06
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So I ment a nice man on-line. We exchanged friendly e-mails then things sort of naturally progressed into "harmless" flirting. the messages make me smile... and other things. If any thing it has benefited my husbands se x life and made me all around a happier girl to be around. I know how I feel about it, but I'm curious to hear what other people think. Is it okay to have a fantasy relationship? Are their rules or boundaries that would make it okay for you?
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new elements joke
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7 Views
12/08/06
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TWO NEW ADDITIONS TO THE PERIODIC TABLE OF ELEMENTS
1) Element Name: WOMANIUM
Symbol: WO
Atomic Weight: (don't even go there)
Physical properties: Generally soft and round in form. Boils at nothing
and may freeze any time. Melts when treated properly. Very bitter if not
used well. Chemical properties: Very active. Highly unstable. Possesses
strong affinity with gold, silver, platinum, and precious stones.
Violent when left alone. Able to absorb great amounts of exotic food.
Turns slightly green when placed next to a better specimen.
Usage: Highly ornamental. An extremely good catalyst for dispersion of
wealth. Probably the most powerful income-reducing agent known.
Caution: Highly explosive in inexperienced hands!
2) Element Name: MANIUM
Symbol: XY
Atomic Weight: (180 +/- 50)
Physical properties: Solid at room temperature but gets bent out of
shape easily. Fairly dense and sometimes flaky. Difficult to find a pure
sample. Due to rust, aging samples are unable to conduct electricity as
easily as young samples. Chemical properties: Attempts to bond with WO
any chance it can get. Also tends to form strong bonds with itself.
Becomes explosive when mixed with KD (Element: CHILDIUM) for prolonged
period of time. Neutralize by saturating with alcohol.
Usage: None known. Possibly a good methane source. Good samples are able
to produce large quantities on command.
Caution: In the absence of WO, this element rapidly decomposes and
begins to smell.
"No electronic signatures authorized."
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Man vs Women ATM Procedures joke
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25 Views
12/08/06
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Okay I'm not going to say I'm personally all that bad when I go to the ATM, but I do have to admit some slight similarities... hope you laugh!
Please note that the bank is installing new
"Drive-through" teller machines. Customers will be able
to withdraw cash without leaving their vehicles. To
enable customers to use this new facility the following
procedures have been drawn up. Please read the
procedure that applies to your own circumstances
(i.e.MALE or FEMALE) and remember them when you use the
machine for the first time.
MALE PROCEDURE
* 1 Drive up to the cash machine.
* 2 Put down your car window.
* 3 Insert card into machine and enter PIN.
* 4 Enter amount of cash required and withdraw.
* 5 Retrieve card, cash and receipt
* 6 Put window up
* 7 Drive off
FEMALE PROCEDURE
* 1 Drive up to cash machine
* 2 Reverse back the required amount to align car
window to machine
* 3 Set parking Brake, Put the window down
* 4 Find handbag, remove all contents on to
passenger
seat to locate card.
* 5 Turn the radio down
* 6 Attempt to insert card into machine
* 7 Attempt to insert card into machine
* 8 Open car door to allow easier access to machine
due
to its excessive distance from the car
* 9 Insert card
* 10 Re-insert card the right way up
* 11 Dig through handbag to find diary with your PIN
written on the inside of the back page
* 12 Enter PIN.
* 13 Press cancel and re-enter correct PIN.
* 14 Enter amount of cash required
* 15 Check make up in rear view mirror
* 16 Retrieve cash and receipt
* 17 Empty handbag again to locate wallet and place
cash inside
* 18 Place receipt in back of checkbook
* 19 Re-check make-up again
* 20 Drive forward 2 feet
* 21 Reverse back to cash machine
* 22 Retrieve card
* 23 Re-empty hand bag, locate card holder, and
place
card into the slot provided
* 24 Give appropriate one-fingered hand signal to irate
male drivers queuing behind.
* 25 Restart stalled engine and pull off
* 26 Drive for 2 to 3 miles
* 27 Release Parking Break
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some funnies...
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54 Views
11/08/06
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Police Story:
Lady calls up police department: Officer, there is a man exposing himself in the next building.
Dispatcher: OK, we'll be right over, lady.
(Five minutes later at her apartment.)
Officer: Which way, lady?
Lady: This way officer, he's still shamelessly baring himself.
Officer: Where is he, lady? I don't see no naked man.
Lady: Oh, you have to look through this telescope.
Weighty Fortune
After the holidays and all those delightful, seasonal treats, a husband stepped on one of those penny scales that tells your fortune and weight.
He drops in a coin and eagerly reads the results.
"Listen to this," he said to his wife, showing her a small, white card. "It says I'm energetic, bright, resourceful and an absolutely great lover in bed!"
"Yeah," his wife nodded, "and it has your weight wrong, too."
Secrets for a Happy Life in Men!
1. It is important to find a woman that cooks and cleans.
2. It is important to find a woman that makes good money.
3. It is important to find a woman that likes to have sex.
4. It is important that these three women never meet.
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