I know most all the guys want the little skinny girls, but for those of us with a little meat on our bones that kinda su cks!!!!!!! I find it hard on-line b/c people won't even give you a chance if you put down you have a few extra lbs. you are not even a consideration. That my friends is SAD, I'm a lot of fun. These guys will just never know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I know most all the guys want the little skinny girls, but for those of us with a little meat on our bones that kinda su cks!!!!!!! I find it hard on-line b/c people won't even give you a chance if you put down you have a few extra lbs. you are not even a consideration. That my friends is SAD, I'm a lot of fun. These guys will just never know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I honestly don't think there is anything wrong with that. There are MANY men who are interested in those "little skinny girls" for a reason. They exude confidence. I am 5'11" and weigh 233.. (Yes... I said it in public!). I am very fit for my size and am confident with who I am. There are so many people who cannot accept what they have and use it to the best of their ability. Confidence is a very sexy trait ladies. Once those of us with a "few extra pounds" learn to accept who we are, and not throw a pitty party about not being 5'5" 110 soaking wet, others will see that confidence and be much more responsive. I have never had any issues finding men to date.. the right ones.. not so much... but hey. I hope I wasn't too harsh, but I for one think confidence has more to do with men's choice to date certian women than size.
Nicole
I honestly don't think there is anything wrong with that. There are MANY men who are interested in those "little skinny girls" for a reason. They exude confidence. I am 5'11" and weigh 233.. (Yes... I said it in public!). I am very fit for my size and am confident with who I am. There are so many people who cannot accept what they have and use it to the best of their ability. Confidence is a very sexy trait ladies. Once those of us with a "few extra pounds" learn to accept who we are, and not throw a pitty party about not being 5'5" 110 soaking wet, others will see that confidence and be much more responsive. I have never had any issues finding men to date.. the right ones.. not so much... but hey. I hope I wasn't too harsh, but I for one think confidence has more to do with men's choice to date certian women than size.
I honestly don't think there is anything wrong with that. There are MANY men who are interested in those "little skinny girls" for a reason. They exude confidence. I am 5'11" and weigh 233.. (Yes... I said it in public!). I am very fit for my size and am confident with who I am. There are so many people who cannot accept what they have and use it to the best of their ability. Confidence is a very sexy trait ladies. Once those of us with a "few extra pounds" learn to accept who we are, and not throw a pitty party about not being 5'5" 110 soaking wet, others will see that confidence and be much more responsive. I have never had any issues finding men to date.. the right ones.. not so much... but hey. I hope I wasn't too harsh, but I for one think confidence has more to do with men's choice to date certian women than size.
Nicole
I honestly don't think there is anything wrong with that. There are MANY men who are interested in those "little skinny girls" for a reason. They exude confidence. I am 5'11" and weigh 233.. (Yes... I said it in public!). I am very fit for my size and am confident with who I am. There are so many people who cannot accept what they have and use it to the best of their ability. Confidence is a very sexy trait ladies. Once those of us with a "few extra pounds" learn to accept who we are, and not throw a pitty party about not being 5'5" 110 soaking wet, others will see that confidence and be much more responsive. I have never had any issues finding men to date.. the right ones.. not so much... but hey. I hope I wasn't too harsh, but I for one think confidence has more to do with men's choice to date certian women than size.
I am a full-figured woman,and am 5'11" as well. I guess, my height and weight has never bothered me. I am very fit for a woman of my size, and can keep up with the best of em. It always makes me wonder why people can't simply be happy with what they have? I'm not cutting anyone down here.. but some people are just not meant to be 5'2" and a 110 soaking wet. THAT'S OK! True beauty is found when you have the ability to accept and truly like who you are... when you do, others will see that. I have NO problem finding men who are interested in me, just the way I am. Confidence is a very attractive trait.. (Hope that wasn't too blunt :) )
Nic
I am a full-figured woman,and am 5'11" as well. I guess, my height and weight has never bothered me. I am very fit for a woman of my size, and can keep up with the best of em. It always makes me wonder why people can't simply be happy with what they have? I'm not cutting anyone down here.. but some people are just not meant to be 5'2" and a 110 soaking wet. THAT'S OK! True beauty is found when you have the ability to accept and truly like who you are... when you do, others will see that. I have NO problem finding men who are interested in me, just the way I am. Confidence is a very attractive trait.. (Hope that wasn't too blunt :) )
YOU TELL THEM WE ARE AS GOOD OR BETTER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1!!
YOU TELL THEM WE ARE AS GOOD OR BETTER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1!!
You know, you are right. There are guys that have a tendency to go for the stick figures, but i think that it is for show. I grew up with a drop-dead gorgeous sister, guys would camp out on our doorstep just to say hi to her. For those guys, it was all about having her on their arm... not about her personality. So since I have been young, I have had this philosophy... looks get the attention, personality keeps it. You have both... so don't let anyone or anything tell you otherwise!! So just have fun, and enjoy life (although you already know that). Take care. :)
You know, you are right. There are guys that have a tendency to go for the stick figures, but i think that it is for show. I grew up with a drop-dead gorgeous sister, guys would camp out on our doorstep just to say hi to her. For those guys, it was all about having her on their arm... not about her personality. So since I have been young, I have had this philosophy... looks get the attention, personality keeps it. You have both... so don't let anyone or anything tell you otherwise!! So just have fun, and enjoy life (although you already know that). Take care. :)
Angel, sorry girl but sometimes it is hard to really take to heart what a good looking girl like yourself says. I know you mean well and all, but girl you are a slim little hottie and the last time I was described as skinny I was probably 9 years old. Though it may be true that there are plenty of good men out there that are looking for good women and could care less about how much weight they may carry hereiam1373 totally has a valid point. a point that I'm sure could be proven by comparing winks any day of the week. BUT if the guy is so insecure that he can't even make the first move on line then I'd say he just isn't worth your time anyhow hereiam1373. You've got to be comfortable in your own skin and be willing to put yourself out there. I figure I may not get as many winks as secretivekitty girl but mine are probably more sincere. Go with the positive!
Angel, sorry girl but sometimes it is hard to really take to heart what a good looking girl like yourself says. I know you mean well and all, but girl you are a slim little hottie and the last time I was described as skinny I was probably 9 years old. Though it may be true that there are plenty of good men out there that are looking for good women and could care less about how much weight they may carry hereiam1373 totally has a valid point. a point that I'm sure could be proven by comparing winks any day of the week. BUT if the guy is so insecure that he can't even make the first move on line then I'd say he just isn't worth your time anyhow hereiam1373. You've got to be comfortable in your own skin and be willing to put yourself out there. I figure I may not get as many winks as secretivekitty girl but mine are probably more sincere. Go with the positive!
Hey I am with secretive Kitty! These guys that are passing you up are the ones missing out!!
You know alot of men do not like high maintenance girls! And the ones who do are just as High maintenace and chances are you wouldnt be happy with that type of Man!!!! Good Luck on your search!!!!
Hey I am with secretive Kitty! These guys that are passing you up are the ones missing out!!
You know alot of men do not like high maintenance girls! And the ones who do are just as High maintenace and chances are you wouldnt be happy with that type of Man!!!! Good Luck on your search!!!!
I know a lot of marines that will only be with a woman who has a good personality ....she doesnt have to be hot or have the perfect sexy body .They said that they will date & even marry a good woman regardless of how she might look.....So dont worry sweetie,there are men willing to have you for you & not what Hollywood or society expects you to look like.So whatever you got... go ahead & flaunt it !!!!!
Angel
I know a lot of marines that will only be with a woman who has a good personality ....she doesnt have to be hot or have the perfect sexy body .They said that they will date & even marry a good woman regardless of how she might look.....So dont worry sweetie,there are men willing to have you for you & not what Hollywood or society expects you to look like.So whatever you got... go ahead & flaunt it !!!!!
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