Ok so i'm single, honest and looking for the same in a man. I've always had a thing for men in uniform, and i am attracted to guys who are doing something with their lives that is greater than themselves. but is it true that most military men who see women who are seeking them, as women who are just looking for an easy way to find someone to supprt them finacially and all. I'm an independant woman, yes someday id like to rais a family and if that means being a stay at home mom, then sure i'd love that. but i also have a dream to be a paramedic and deff dont want to find someone just so i'm supported finacially. I guess what i'm saying is it really possible for a woman to seek out a military man and actually find one who isnt just going to think she is out to get something from him, or only wants him for being a man in a uniform?