Ok so i'm single, honest and looking for the same in a man. I've always had a thing for men in uniform, and i am attracted to guys who are doing something with their lives that is greater than themselves. but is it true that most military men who see women who are seeking them, as women who are just looking for an easy way to find someone to supprt them finacially and all. I'm an independant woman, yes someday id like to rais a family and if that means being a stay at home mom, then sure i'd love that. but i also have a dream to be a paramedic and deff dont want to find someone just so i'm supported finacially. I guess what i'm saying is it really possible for a woman to seek out a military man and actually find one who isnt just going to think she is out to get something from him, or only wants him for being a man in a uniform?
Ok so i'm single, honest and looking for the same in a man. I've always had a thing for men in uniform, and i am attracted to guys who are doing something with their lives that is greater than themselves. but is it true that most military men who see women who are seeking them, as women who are just looking for an easy way to find someone to supprt them finacially and all. I'm an independant woman, yes someday id like to rais a family and if that means being a stay at home mom, then sure i'd love that. but i also have a dream to be a paramedic and deff dont want to find someone just so i'm supported finacially. I guess what i'm saying is it really possible for a woman to seek out a military man and actually find one who isnt just going to think she is out to get something from him, or only wants him for being a man in a uniform?
you know they don't stay in uniform forever. enlisted make up more than half the u.s. military and I doubt most do the full 20 needed for retirement and even if they did most would still be out and looking for a civilian job by the time the were 40. It can't be all about the uniform. It really really can't. the uniform looks good and all but if you want a guy in uniform go for a cop or fireman...something along those lines...maybe some carrer officers, but even alot of them get out after 20-30 years and take civilian jobs... And as for the doing something with their lives... yeah, those 18-21 year old boys... they really are just doing it for the greater good ;) hahha, don't fool yourself. I'm not saying they all don't do it for the right reasons, but I'm affraid you wont necessarily find the stellar work ethic any easily with military boys as you would with college boys. pretty much one in the same... only difference is every single enlisted guy had to go through the hazing that only the frat boys do at college...and they went for a lot longer, and with a much more structured game plan. Millitary men can be wonderful and great. I've loved a few... but I'm just saying you are young and there is no reason to devote all your attention to one class of individuals and pretend that they are somehow better than everyone else because of their job titles.
you know they don't stay in uniform forever. enlisted make up more than half the u.s. military and I doubt most do the full 20 needed for retirement and even if they did most would still be out and looking for a civilian job by the time the were 40. It can't be all about the uniform. It really really can't. the uniform looks good and all but if you want a guy in uniform go for a cop or fireman...something along those lines...maybe some carrer officers, but even alot of them get out after 20-30 years and take civilian jobs... And as for the doing something with their lives... yeah, those 18-21 year old boys... they really are just doing it for the greater good ;) hahha, don't fool yourself. I'm not saying they all don't do it for the right reasons, but I'm affraid you wont necessarily find the stellar work ethic any easily with military boys as you would with college boys. pretty much one in the same... only difference is every single enlisted guy had to go through the hazing that only the frat boys do at college...and they went for a lot longer, and with a much more structured game plan. Millitary men can be wonderful and great. I've loved a few... but I'm just saying you are young and there is no reason to devote all your attention to one class of individuals and pretend that they are somehow better than everyone else because of their job titles.
It's not impossible for a military man to trust someone, but most of the girls that you find in military towns are not the trustworthy type. As for me I am looking for someone that wont label me as the "typical player Marine". I hardly ever introduce myself as a military man when I meet someone in a military town.
It's not impossible for a military man to trust someone, but most of the girls that you find in military towns are not the trustworthy type. As for me I am looking for someone that wont label me as the "typical player Marine". I hardly ever introduce myself as a military man when I meet someone in a military town.
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