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Posted on 07/04/2007

Here I go again... another wound to heal, another crack in my heart. Love is the most powerful feeling in the world. It can raise you up and hold you high, it can bring you down and hold you under.

I think everyone is afraid of love but not all will admit it. Some are afraid they won't find it, others may be afraid they'll lose it once they've found it.

Me... I'm afraid I won't find someone who will love me for than a year. They always leave after a year with me. I just want more than a single year of happiness.

I have hope, I have faith, I have patience. But I'm losing strength.

I just want to love someone. I want to make someone happy with my presence in their life. I want to feel the completeness instead of this aching hole inside of me.

Maybe, he will come tomorrow. Goodnight.



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Posted on 07/26/2007

Sweet Sweet Texan - it takes the same length of time to get over a relationship than it did to build it. Each time you are building throughout the year - it will take another year to put away the hurt in your heart. Each time your heart is hurt - a small part is displaced - over the years the heart becomes weaker and weaker to that type of hurt & injury.
The bible says "protect your heart" - God knew what He was teaching us.
Don't allow just anyone into your heart - be selective - be strong -think thru what you yourself want from life before you involve another - before you invite another to share your life. Don't date blindly.
Say to yourself and to God - this is the type of guy I want to find - the type that will have healthy wholesome views about God, life, marriage, children. A guy that will encourage you - morally support you - a caring guy - a guy that let's you know what he is thinking and his
view of the future with or without you in his life.
If you think you found that REAL guy - thank God for him - and TALK, TALK, TALK with this guy - become friends BEFORE you share anything more personal, before you go to his place or yours, before you introduce him to friends or family. You may be called a prude - but your heart will be healthy, intact, and strong - strong enough for that RIGHT RELATIONSHIP WHEN IT SHOWS UP.



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Posted on 07/20/2007

Sorry about the Heart ache! I know how it feels. I was left putting it nicely back in end of March 07 and it was not fun. You give all and then, I don't want you anymore:( Have been thru it before but each time it takes a bit longer but it does get better:) I know for me and for you that our day will come and we will be smiling:) So really don't give up! Remember it will show up when we least expect:) Take Care
Enjoy and Be Safe:)


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Posted on 07/07/2007

Holy Cow!
What a way to start off a blog! Dear lady, I wish you all the best luck in your search here.....

The human heart is an amazing thing - Strong and tough, it enables us poor humans to do things some might call SUPERHUMAN -

At the same time, it can be broken in 2 seconds simply from the wrong word or phrase spoken, and can take years to mend.....

Know what it's like to wear your heart on your sleeve - been there and done that....take care, and if you need a friend, I will be there....

ianw3



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