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Quoting Sarah1976:
This blog had so many different ways it could have gone just from the topic line. how many beers is too many, how many women... these were the first two that ran through my mind :) Good to see I was almost floating along the right wave length. My lines, "I don't really count"... "you don't really want to know"... "Somewhere between this and that I imagine." which is usually off by a certain amount. When I was in Europe my girlfriend and I were out to dinner with two guys and the question came up--all in harmless flirty fun... yeah right... low and behold, as it seems to always happen one of the guys had been with less than 5 women. Great, kudos for you dude was what we were saying but after his confession the rest of us weren't about to fess up. I don't know about the other guy but my girlfriend and I conferred later that we had definitely toned it down. Where are they getting this average of 8 from?? How old are these people they are polling for goodness sakes?? Not that 8 isn't a great number, hell it is idea if you ask me, but is it realistic? I read once that the average age to loose your virginity is 15.5, so let's say you make it at least ten years without getting hitched--hopefully longer, that is ten years of sex with probably more than one person. even if it was only one different person a year... that is still ten on average right?? and what about those slutty years, doesn't everyone have the slutty years?? hahha, okay before anyone jumps on that, yes I know not everyone has the slutty years and bravo to you all-- BUT I can just about promise you that every single one of us knows someone who has lived the slutty years, right?? Where were these folks when they were taking the poll??
But back to Xray's specific inquiry... if your numbers are getting up there it is time to be a little bit more selective of course. It's not about I can't sleep with you because I meant my quota for the year, but rather are you worth another notch on the old bed post...the thing is starting to look like a tooth pick! Really by a certain time in life the frequent casual roll in the hay has lost most of its appeal and we are more focused on the long term, right? Still there is a time and place for everything I suppose. Point being there is no one number. I could pull any number out of the sky and that could be it, but what if your one special someone was just one number over that?? It doesn't matter how many people you slept with it only matters that you are only sleeping with that one person now and forever. (you could totally use that line the next time the question comes up. "Baby, who cares about the past--a number is just a number. All that matters is that I'm with you now and only you for the rest of time.")
This blog had so many different ways it could have gone just from the topic line. how many beers is too many, how many women... these were the first two that ran through my mind :) Good to see I was almost floating along the right wave length. My lines, "I don't really count"... "you don't really want to know"... "Somewhere between this and that I imagine." which is usually off by a certain amount. When I was in Europe my girlfriend and I were out to dinner with two guys and the question came up--all in harmless flirty fun... yeah right... low and behold, as it seems to always happen one of the guys had been with less than 5 women. Great, kudos for you dude was what we were saying but after his confession the rest of us weren't about to fess up. I don't know about the other guy but my girlfriend and I conferred later that we had definitely toned it down. Where are they getting this average of 8 from?? How old are these people they are polling for goodness sakes?? Not that 8 isn't a great number, hell it is idea if you ask me, but is it realistic? I read once that the average age to loose your virginity is 15.5, so let's say you make it at least ten years without getting hitched--hopefully longer, that is ten years of sex with probably more than one person. even if it was only one different person a year... that is still ten on average right?? and what about those slutty years, doesn't everyone have the slutty years?? hahha, okay before anyone jumps on that, yes I know not everyone has the slutty years and bravo to you all-- BUT I can just about promise you that every single one of us knows someone who has lived the slutty years, right?? Where were these folks when they were taking the poll??
But back to Xray's specific inquiry... if your numbers are getting up there it is time to be a little bit more selective of course. It's not about I can't sleep with you because I meant my quota for the year, but rather are you worth another notch on the old bed post...the thing is starting to look like a tooth pick! Really by a certain time in life the frequent casual roll in the hay has lost most of its appeal and we are more focused on the long term, right? Still there is a time and place for everything I suppose. Point being there is no one number. I could pull any number out of the sky and that could be it, but what if your one special someone was just one number over that?? It doesn't matter how many people you slept with it only matters that you are only sleeping with that one person now and forever. (you could totally use that line the next time the question comes up. "Baby, who cares about the past--a number is just a number. All that matters is that I'm with you now and only you for the rest of time.")
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