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I was just wanting to get everyone else opinion on this topic.... If your significant other or boyfriend called a sex line would you consider it to be cheating?
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I would only be mad because he didn't call me for the phone sex. I will do whatever I takes to make my hubby happy and if that's what I takes then so be it....It was really immature of him though just to do that to pi ss you off. What a stupid and petty way to get revenge for a spat. i would tell him that too
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my hubby has been doing it the entire time we have been married, the only thing that pisses me off about it is he thinks he has to lie about it, I reallly don't care if he call them or watches porn as long as he is honest about it, he does pay for it in the long run later, (lol) he is the only one working, so I find that it is ok he can talk as long as he wants and watch what he wants,just be honest about it, you shouldn't let it bother you so much, and some men do stupid things, take it from me we have been married for 6years now and now that I think about it , it;s kinda funny,we now are just opening up in our marriage, on all aspects of it, I know he loves me and wants me rather he's talking ,seeing, or looking at another women, more power to him , everyone needs to be happy
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GOD are you that stuck up on it the guy hears some sexy voice and chokes his chicken and you get up set...what about all the romance books you read or the sex story's in Cosmo and not to talk about your long bathes you take ... everyone needs to have some privet time if anything you should be mad about the phone bill they can get very expensive
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Oh my, Dead_Red I KNOW you're not suggesting she talk to someone close about this??

Hell, there is now way known I would share that with my friends or family!!

And have to hear about it constantly later??

Uh Uh, nope, not happening!!

Blogs are meant to be a release, a way of putting things out there so you can see them more clearly.

Hey Ms Morals, who's haunting the car wash while you're in here??
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I'm with Diggi, I reckon sex lines would be just like looking at porn together. Ace!
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Maybe you should give him your cell phone number, and be the one he calls for phone sex. Then he'd be cheating w/ you!!!
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I think it needs to be pointed out that there is the 'Quick Fix' element to porn or sex lines. Sometimes you want 'the release'without the lead up, foreplay, blah, blah, blah.
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1 year ago
take a chill pill hun... and get that porn out,chocolate and strawberrys and cream and those damn handcuffs and let ur hair down ... have some fun.... lolllllllllllllllll... damn ppl live a little.. lifes 2 short ; )
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1 year ago
Watching a video, pictures, PORN! I find it highly amusing that there are women who consider a man talking on a phone line cheating. I personally would not want nor need to be in a relationship where a woman is that weak willed and insecure in us and herself to let a little thing like that bother her. I'm not picking on you greeneyed princess, but I'm just saying how I feel about this situation. Sometimes it is just a release....................
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Diggi - Watching what??
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I have to go with the MARINE. nuff said
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You men always stick together. It's cheating and you know it. And I wouldn't believe your husband, hes not just calling and hanging up. The man has a problem!
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If that's the case you need to kick his ass. Maybe that might encourage more open communication!!
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I agree with the marine
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Thank You all for your good advice.. I have talked to my hubby and he told me that when we were fighting he does stuff to pi ss me off so all he did was dial those lines to make them show up on the ph one bill.. so we will see when I actually get the bill if he called and then hung up... he always does stupid stuff to pi ss me off when we are fighting.
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If he's your husband/boyfriend, YES he is definately cheating. It's only going to lead to other things, if he's not doing them already!
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1 year ago
If you're not comfortable with it then its a problem that needs to be addressed. The way you approach the subject can greatly determine the outcome and this is where men and women have the most difficulty.....communication. Maybe your significant other was just satisfying a curiosity. After all that stuff is plastered all over the media, its hard not to notice. Calmly ask him what prompted his interest and really listen to his response. After he's done, calmly express how it makes you feel when he does that. Maybe he wants to try something new and is afraid to ask because he's not sure what your response will be. You'll never know if you don't talk about it. All best to you.
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Hmmmmm, bit of a fine line really....

Maybe the question you should be asking is why has it upset you?? Has it made you insecure cos you think he may be looking for something he isn't getting from you?? Now I know I am single and I must admit I have gone out of my way to remain that way for the past 7 years, but I was always under the impression that communication played a big part in relationships. Hell, I may be wrong. Ask him why he did it and bear in mind, you may not want to hear the answer. Before you do that think long and hard about why it is bothering you.
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Of course it's not cheating. I think someone would have to be pretty insecure about their relationship or themselves if a sex line is considered cheating. What about watching, is that cheating? What about seeing an attractive female and looking twice, is that cheating? I'm sure I'll get a lot of women who disagree with me and maybe even a "guy" or two???? But, it's not cheating unless it's cheating.