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  • View author's info ( 42, Man | Douglas, GA, USA )

    I believe a good first date should be in a quiet atmosphere so it’s a risk and talk and get to know each other. The atmosphere should not outweigh the conversation.

  • View author's info ( 52, Woman | Napa, CA, USA )

    Unless we have been talking for long enough to know there was a friendship regardless if there is chemistry, I like the idea of meeting over a cup of coffee or light bite.

  • View author's info ( 51, Woman | Saint Louis, MO, USA )

    I like to try to meet someone in a very casual environment - coffee would be nice....just to get the conversation started.

  • View author's info ( 49, Woman | Rensselaer, IN, USA )

    I want to get to know you on a first date...so let's go to a place we can talk and enjoy all those first-date awkward moments!

  • View author's info ( 55, Woman | Tacoma, WA, USA )

    As much as I would like a romantic evening. I think it might be best to meet and see if there is any sparks before committing to any other meetings. Just encase either one of us gets the phone for the friend emergency.

  • View author's info ( 39, Woman | Las Vegas, NV, USA )

    I was thinking of having a coffee or something at a local coffee shop or meeting at a local church and having a nice time just getting to know each other.

  • View author's info ( 50, Woman | Clinton Township, MI, USA )

    Ideal first date would probably be coffee or a beer, possibly lunch. Let's go somewhere where we can hear each other.

  • View author's info ( 64, Woman | Bend, OR, USA )

    A nice first meeting would be in a quiet little spot where we could have a cup of coffee/whatever and get to know one another. Take a walk and check out some of the more hidden great places a city or town may have. See i...  see more >>

  • View author's info ( 54, Woman | Hamilton, OH, USA )

    I prefer to meet in a public place with lots of people. I know that doesn't sound very private, but I got to see how you are in public before I want to be with someone in private.

  • View author's info ( 32, Woman | Lakewood, WA, USA )

    For a first date I am not anticipating to be wine and dined at an expensive place. Being able to have a drink and chat for awhile would be my ideal first date, getting to know one another...to then figure out if we want...  see more >>

  • View author's info ( 39, Woman | Slippery Rock, PA, USA )

    I would love to go out to get dinner & drinks. So that we can talk & get to know each other better. But, a wonderful 2nd date would be a football, baseball, or hockey game....I go to High School & professional sporting e...  see more >>

  • View author's info ( 51, Woman | Boston, MA, USA )

    Know the perfect place in case of a backup needed. Somewhere we aren't yelling over loud music or other conversations because we are elbow to elbow with people on their iPhones next to us.

  • View author's info ( 45, Woman | Amarillo, TX, USA )

    Dinner for a first date can be super awkward. We can always start at Starbucks, that way If it's not a match, there's no pressure!

  • View author's info ( 40, Woman | Wilmington, NC, USA )

    Anything fun. I not a over planed expensive thing. Something the other person enjoys so I can see who they really are.

  • View author's info ( 41, Woman | Mukwonago, WI, USA )

    Creativity is key. Always nice to keep it simple for the first date, just to make sure the spark is there.