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  • author ( 35, woman | Bolingbrook, IL, USA )

    Keep it casual , meet up for drinks and just talk. Not a fan of dinner and a movie on the first date.

  • author ( 72, woman | Asheboro, NC, USA )

    My idea of a good first date or meeting would be a nice public place for coffee. Not too loud so we can enjoy a nice conversation and get to know one another better. No expectations, easy on both.

  • author ( 31, woman | Williamsburg, VA, USA )

    See this is cliche. My idea of a date would be getting to know someone over a drink and enjoying a nice local band at a bar. Too cheesey? Don't read any further.

  • author ( 45, woman | Chapel Hill, NC, USA )

    For me, first dates don't require much. Just a chance to meet and feel if there's chemistry. The rest will follow...

  • author ( 43, woman | Seattle, WA, USA )

    Drinks and conversation.. see if we have any chemistry or not? Mainly looking for casual fun. If we find that we really are interested exclusively, Im open to the idea of relationship. But it certainly would have to be s...  see more >>

  • author ( 55, woman | Corning, NY, USA )

    An ideal first date would be to have drinks on the beach! A nice two person lounge chair, an umbrella for privacy, and a cooler full of cold wine!

  • author ( 29, woman | Ada, MI, USA )

    It's rather a cliche but the only way to get to know someone is to talk and you can't do that while watching a movie or doing something crazy so for the first few meetings take me somwhere we can have intelligent, insigh...  see more >>

  • author ( 30, woman | Pocatello, ID, USA )

    I'm kind of over the dinner and a movie thing. I'd rather just sit and grab some coffee or drinks and see if there is any kind of connection. We could even shoot some pool or play darts. Two things I've done a lot but se...  see more >>

  • author ( 67, woman | Des Moines, IA, USA )

    This will be decided between me and my date. Prefer a quiet place, walking at a Lake, small pub or caf.

  • author ( 41, woman | Victoria, BC, CAN )

    Hmmm... Obviously meeting in a public place that has multiple exits just in case either of us wants to book it. (LoL) Lets start with a drink and go from there. Variety is the spice of life.

  • author ( 56, woman | Cleveland, OH, USA )

    I think a first date should be casual. Chemistry plays a big part of a relationship and a casual get together will help us find out if there are any "initial sparks".

  • author ( 31, woman | Ithaca, NY, USA )

    I can't stand traditional first dates. Movies or dinner that can come second for me. I'd rather spend time doing something fun. If its nice out spending time outside if its cold out the same ! Lets go sledding:)

  • author ( 42, woman | New York, NY, USA )

    It was full of fun, i had a kiss on my first date, hug and sit together in a table for two , had a drink together and walk hand in hand while taking me to the nearest Bus Stop to get a Bus Back to Dallas from Fortworth

  • author ( 45, woman | Collioure, Languedoc-Roussillon, France )

    Well... if you were close to me, we could walk on the beach and then head off to a local cafe where we drink rose and discuss the universe.

  • author ( 62, woman | Houston, TX, USA )

    My idea for our first date: Perhaps we could meet on a patio somewhere, sipping a cold drink, listening to a neighborhood band, visiting and getting to know each other. No pressure. No expectations. Even if it goes no wh...  see more >>